Preparing a loved one for a transition to another state of consciousness needs tenderness, peacefulness, and a listening ear to do what they wish right up until the end. Tying all the ribbons that you have worn in your life can benefit the help of an independent advocate such as a Solicitor who can help you put things in place should the person you are caring for decrease rapidly. You can start by de-cluttering your home so that if there are things you wish to pass down, you can do it earlier rather than later in an organised way.
Some people are truly accepting about life and death, they see it as a transition and when I sit down to speak with families about the transition from no until the end, I always ask each person to open their heart and think of the most loving gift you could be to that person, it could be a special day out as a family, or a trip together to the local charity shop knowing your clothes have gone to a good home. It may be time to speak with your local church or place of worship they are truly wonderful when it comes to preparing to transition, they give you peace of mind, prayer time, and a warm and loving heart to be there with you all the way.
There are many other ways that you can prepare your spirit to transform, setting up an altar with candles and pictures of your special friends, animals, and people in your life. It could just be a vase of flowers, a plant, or a lovely picture on the wall that gives a sense of unity in the end. I found that surrounding your loved one with as much love as you can possibly give, prayer, and thanksgiving raises the vibration of the person’s transition at that moment. They may not be able to speak it or show it, but their spirit will feel yours collectively and an overwhelming feeling of love will embrace them and you, giving you a happy memory that your loved one transitioned in peace.
This is not an easy topic to discuss, in fact, it’s one of the hardest especially if the person you are caring for has not laid any plans out, sometimes you are in the dark about the best thing to do. Try not to overcomplicate things and seek advice from the right qualified people, just to guide you, then when you have all the information needed so you can take care of your loved one, start putting things in place, and be reassured that you are not alone and there is support there for you.
Allow the changes to happen it may be frustrating at first but once adapted everything will fall back in place and it will be off your mind, and you will have the time to spend laughing and fulfilling those last wishes instead of stressing out in the moment unorganised. Nobody in truth can really prepare, our timeline is in the hands of God when you are changing into another state of consciousness. Staying in a peaceful and stable place, supported by caregivers so you are not alone, opens the energy up around you and becomes calm and peaceful. Some people experience a change of temperature where the room goes cold, others may get a glimpse of an orb of light, and many have told me they felt the presence of a passed person. Angels come in all formats.
Author, Isabella – Excerpt from book I Still Know You