We all get caught up in someone else’s dramas whether we believe it or not, it’s a very hard task to live, work, be intimate, and maintain your “Freedom”. It’s so important to connect to your own source, your own thoughts, your own feelings, and your own spiritual path. Other people’s thoughts, life, and actions are out of your hands so let go of trying to figure it out, instead remind yourself that you create your own future. As soon as I try to help, share, teach, and offer to any individual it ends in problems, heartache, blame, and anger. Why? because I teach people to understand themselves first before they transfer it onto another, that’s the most common thing, I’ve had people I have known a couple of months or met once or twice blame me for their whole life. It’s as if who or what they did to be in the place I met them, is no longer relevant as I’ve taken on all of their drama, energy, negativity, and in some cases their source of having to do what they want and completely letting go of my dreams. This is why Buddhist do not enter into a relationship, it becomes a tangled mess and therefore they are not able to come from a place of non-judgment, and emptiness as they are interacting with another soul’s Persona”.
Those that are following engaged Buddhism can enter into a loving and dedicated relationship as long as they are both practicing appreciation for what is and mindfulness of each other. People believe it’s ok to tell somebody what they think even though they might not even know them or if they do were not even there to understand the circumstances or situation. This requires coming from a place of non-duality, lifting yourself out of the drama, and detaching and untying any formations that occurred before it’s too late. If you don’t clear it away daily, the energy sticks like glue and rears its ugly head at any opportunity failing to see it was something from the past and not the present. This I find very hard to teach, it hurts me deeply when I’m being blamed, and attacked verbally, mentally and at times physically, it hurts me deeply when I have to defend myself constantly from other people’s judgments, all I want is peace to continue on my path as a writer with the hope my words may mean something to somebody in the next life. I am sending forward positive healing and transformation as in this current life, there are not enough healers to override the bad and negativity, Earth has lost its “Spirit”, and the continuation of the disruption, attitudes, mindsets, and greed will forever be the downfall of life.
Sew new seeds for the future generation, animals, plants, and minerals. You can’t teach spiritual connection you can only guide somebody to find their own way of connecting to the Source, our universal life force. As humans, we have evolved very quickly and advanced in the areas of mental, physical, power, and greed. Our World lacks understanding and people connecting to their own “Spirit” to take responsibility for themselves and to develop a better understanding of who they are, and if they find something they don’t like then it’s up to them as an individual to correct it. Some do and some don’t, those that don’t I believe are the ones carrying the most fear. Just because you feel or might misunderstand at that moment, does not mean it will happen. But if you keep repeating that negative thought or feeling and forget to also remind yourself of the good or your part in it then there’s absolutely nothing anybody else can do to help. When somebody says “Without me, you would be nothing “, or “I gave up my career to have you, and look how you repay me.” and finally “You would have nothing without me”. All of these words carry the same vibration and that is fear, anger, resentment, and bullying.
It truly is a form of abuse that goes on all of the time, along with swearing violently at somebody, and when you highlight that to the abuser they usually attack back with even worse abuse just so you “Submit”, go into their mindset, and be made to feel you are worthless that your own desires, life does not matter, the younger generation of today are using abusive words and language to dominate, intimidate, and annihilate you just because they can. Sadly this is due to the music, tv programs such as “South Park ” using this as a form of acceptance, making fun of people, and showing no respect to parents, friends, families, and Women. Your life does matter, in more ways than you can imagine, and if you are in a relationship continuously being blamed for every argument, disagreement, and situation then it’s time to walk away, take a break, and evaluate is this the right person/relationship for my Soul. Every person deserves to be treated equally, rationally, and in peace, only those that own their own dramas live happier and fuller life of being. Turn inwards and you will see what others see, turn outwards and you will reflect all the beautiful oceans straight back into your heart. We believe in you…
Author Isabella Rose
Excerpt from Book/Film “If I Had Wings”